life is good!

my huny is back so im real happy about that...he refused to tell me exactly what day he was flying in because he wanted it to be a surprise...he promised to be back before valentines day...it was cute at first but around the 12th i started to get a little antsy...for some reason his phone wasnt working and i couldnt reach him for a few days...on top of that the last time i had talked to him he told mme he had to change his flight and wasnt coming in until the 20th...of course refused to belived that..my sweetie cannot lie well at all...but was the 14th got closer i was feeling sad, and slightly mad that i couldnt get in touch with him and maybe he wasnt going to make it for valentines day..i had taken the day off already so i was gearing up for sitting at the house alone...

on the 13th i was REAL pissy...i told a few folks at work that my baby hadnt checked in with me and i was starting to believe i wouldnt see him until the 20th...my girl and i planned to meet at my house after work and have some champagne and veg out...

she beat me to my apartment and went up the front walk while i parked around back...she has a key so she could let herself in..as i was coming up to the door she was cming out of the apartment and closing the door...she just said "ill talk to you tomorrow"...i walked in to candles lit everywhere...and my dog jumping on my leg, lol i run to the bedroom but no sweetie, as i turned around he appeared in the doorway...*sigh* he was home!

on valentines day i made a big dinner and then we went to the movies...it been great since he has been back..we got right back in the groove of things...2 months away from each other really made us see how much we appreciate each other...

so life is good...he surprised me with the why did i get married dvd and i surprised him with the american gangster 3-disc set...

family is good, friends are good, work is good...so i am so happy...my girl marie brought me these red grapefruit that grow on trees in her yard....tasty! i love southern california if only cause i can go to someones yard and pick fruit off trees...

im ready for the warm weather to come and stay...its in the 70s during the day now but iffy some days...i cant wait until its steadily 80-85..i will be so happy..i love heat and sun...

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I was half watching Celebrity Rehab on VH1 and half messing around on my computer this morning...i remember back in the day i used to link stuff i was talking about but...well...if you dont know about the show celebrity rehab w/ dr. drew pinsky...google it...

so like i said i wasnt giving the show my 100% attention because i was recording it so i knew id probably watch it again later....that was until pinsky said something i had never heard before...but it grabbed me for a minute...i had to get a pen and write it down...im sure others have heard this before but it was new to me...

he said, "you are only as sick as your secrets."

that really just got me...i just thought id share...

memes for the older me...

taken from myspace:
Tired of all of those surveys made up by high school kids?
'Have you ever kissed someone?'
'Missed someone?'
'Told someone you loved them?'
'Drank alcohol?'...


50 questions for the people who are a little older....


1. What bill do you hate paying the most?
WHAT BILL DO I NOT HATE PAYING IS A BETTER QUESTION.

2. Where was the last place you had a romantic dinner?
UMMMM....YEAH I HOPE HE READS THIS..J/K...THIS NICE ITALIAN RESTUARANT DOWNTOWN..WE SAT UT ON THE PATIO


3. Do you regret losing your virginity to who you lost it to?
HA! WELL...UMMM...YES AND NO...YES BECAUSE HE WAS A SPECIAL GUY IN MY LIFE..NO BECAUSE I WAS DATING ANOTHER GUY AT THE TIME...

4. If you could go back and change one thing what would it be ?
I WOULNDT HAVE DYED MY HAIR WHEN I WAS 19...THE STYLIST NAME WAS "WISHBONE" I SHOULDA KNOWN BETTER...

5. Name of your second grade teacher?
I FORGOT..SOME YT LADY...

6. What do you really want to be doing right now?
SITTING ON THE COUCH EATING CARBS AND DRINKING CHAMPAGNE

7. What did you want to be when you were growing up?
FIRST A TEACHER, THEN A BOOKSTORE/COFFEE SHOP OWNER, THEN A PSYCHOLOGIST...

8. How many colleges did you attend?
WELL I ATTENDED THE WONDERFUL SPELMAN COLLEGE FOR MY BACKELORS...I DID A FELLOWHIP PROGRAM AT VANDERBILT UNIVERSITY AND I ATTENDED ANOTHER FELLOWSHIP PROGRAM AT UNIVERSITY OF NEVADA, RENO

9. Why did you choose the shirt that you have on right now?
IT WAS CLEAN

11. If you could move anywhere and take someone with you where would it be?
SOMEWHERE TROPICAL, WITH LOTS OF BEACHES AND A ECLECTIC NIGHTLIFE..

I2. First thought when the alarm went off this morning?
I DONT HAVE TO SET AN ALARM..EVER!

13. Last thought before going to sleep last night?
UMMM...NO CLUE...

14.What do you miss about being a child?
NO RESPONSIBILITIES...

16. What errand/chore do you despise?
DUSTING AND CLEANING THE SHOWER

17. If you didn't have to work, would you volunteer?
YEAH I WOULD...ID LOVE TO BE A KIDS TRACK COACH

18. Get up early or sleep in?
SLEEP IN..

19. What is your favorite cartoon character?
I LIKE MICKEY MOUSE, I GUESS...

20. Favorite thing to do at night with a girl/guy?
WITH THE GIRLS: GET DRESSED UP, GO OUT TO DINNER, DRINKS AFTER A DAY OF SHOPPING..
WITH MY GUY: SEX...THEN GET DRESSED UP AND GO OUT TO DINNER, DRINKS, FOLLOWED BY MORE SEX...

21. Have you found real love yet
A COUPLE TIMES

22. When did you start feeling old?
IT AINT HAPPENED YET!..

24. Fave lunch meat?
HONEY TURKEY...

25. What do you get every time you go into Wal-Mart?
MAKE UP, FOOD, CANDLE HOLDERS...

26. Beach or lake?
BEACH

27. Do you think marriage is an outdated ritual?
NAW, I THINK ITS A GREAT THING WHEN A COUPLE IS READY....

28. Do you own property?
SOON...I HOPE...WELL...ONE DAY ANYWAY...

29. Favorite Guilty pleasure?
MAKING COOKIE DOUGH AND EATING IT WHILE SITTING ON THE COUCH WATCHING MOVIES..

30. Favorite movie you wouldn't want anyone to find out
THAT MANDY MOORE MOVIE WHERE SHE DIES..A WALK TO REMEMBER...

31. What's your drink?
CHAMPAGNE W/ POMEGRANTE JUICE...

32. Cowboys or Indians?
DA HELL?

33. Cops or Robbers?
THATS KINKY...

34. Who from high school would you like to run in to?
MY OLDER BROTHER..HA! I WISH HE COULD COME OUT HERE AND KICK IT WITH ME AGAIN, WE HAD SO MUCH FUN...

35. What radio station is your car radio tuned to right now?
XM CHANNEL SUITE 62!

36. Norm or Cliff?
WHO?

37. Grey's Anatomy or 'The Office?
-PASS-

38. Worst relationship mistake that you wish you could take back?
NOT THINKING I WAS WORTHY OF HIS LOVE AND ATTENTION..

39. Do you like the person that sits directly across from you at work?
YEAH, THATS MY GIRL...

40. What famous person would you like to have dinner with?
JANET JACKSON AND/OR NIA LONG

41. Indoors or Outdoors?
DEPENDS ON THE ACTIVITY...

42. Have you ever crashed your vehicle?
OOH YEAH, TOTALED MY FIRST CAR..MY 1999 OLDSMOBILE ALERO NAMED MALCOLM..

43. Have you ever had to use a fire extinguisher for its intended purpose?
NOPE

44. Last book you read?
ITS BEEN AWHILE..WHICH IS NOT MY STYLE..UMM..VERONICA DECIDES TO DIE BY PAULO COELO

45. Do you have a teddy bear?
I HAVE MORE THAN ONE..

46. Strangest place you have ever brushed your teeth?
BAND CAMP?

47. Somewhere in California you've never been and would like to go?
SAN DIEGO

48. Do you go to church?
I HAVENT BEEN IN A WHILE..I MISS MY CHURCH IN INDIANA..

49. At this point in your life would you rather start a new career or a new relationship?
A NEW CAREER...ID LOVE TO TRY SOMETHING NEW...

50. How long have you been out of school?
HIGH SCHOOL: 9 YEARS IN JUNE
COLLEGE: 5 YEARS IN MAY